LGBTQ2+ Adoption in Canada
If you're an LGBTQ2+ Canadian considering adoption, you're part of a growing and vibrant community. Since 2005, when same-sex marriage became legal across the country, the number of LGBTQ2+ families in Canada has significantly increased. While the environment for LGBTQ2+ adoption has greatly evolved, there are still specific considerations and challenges you may encounter.
As an LGBTQ2+ individual or couple in Canada, you have the legal right to adopt. Discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity is prohibited in the adoption process. This applies to all provinces and territories, with the last holdout (Nunavut) legalizing same-sex adoption in 2011.
Interesting fact: Did you know that in some provinces, like British Columbia and Ontario, up to four parents can be listed on a birth registration? This progressive approach recognizes diverse family structures, including known sperm donors or co-parenting arrangements.
The Process
The adoption process for LGBTQ2+ parents is generally similar to that for heterosexual couples. It typically involves comprehensive training, home studies, background checks and interviews. These steps are designed to ensure you can provide a safe, supportive environment for a child.
While the process is similar, LGBTQ2+ couples may face some additional hurdles:
International adoption: Many countries don't allow adoption by same-sex couples, limiting your options for international adoption.
Private adoption: Some birth parents may not be comfortable with LGBTQ2+ adoptive parents, which can make private adoption more challenging.
Societal attitudes: Despite legal protections, you may encounter individual biases or lack of understanding.
Forms and paperwork: Some adoption forms may not be designed with LGBTQ2+ families in mind, which can be frustrating.
Navigating International Adoption
International adoption can be particularly tricky for LGBTQ2+ couples, especially when the country of origin doesn't recognize same-sex parents. Here are some strategies to consider:
Focus on LGBTQ2+-friendly countries
Colombia, Mexico, and South Africa are often mentioned as being more open to same-sex adoptions. You can find a sample list of adoption requirements by country here.
If the country does not allow same-sex couples, consider single-parent adoption: In some cases, one partner may adopt as a single parent, with the other pursuing second-parent adoption after returning to Canada.
Work with experienced agencies
Look for adoption agencies with a track record of successfully placing children with LGBTQ2+ families internationally.
Understand legal complexities
Consult with lawyers experienced in both international adoption and the specific adoption laws in your province or territory. These laws are also continually evolving, so keep up-to-date with changes as you move through the journey.
Most importantly - take care of youself and be patient with the journey
The adoption process can take time for all prospective parents, but due to international restrictions, it may take even longer for LGBTQ2+ families. Connect with other LGBTQ2+ adoptive parents who have gone through the adoption process for support along the way.
Remember, while there may be some unique challenges, many LGBTQ2+ Canadians have successfully adopted and created loving families. Whether you choose domestic or international adoption, the key is to stay informed, be patient, and don't hesitate to seek professional guidance. While the path may have some extra twists and turns for LGBTQ2+ couples, the destination – a loving family – is absolutely achievable. Your future family is worth every step!
